Tink -- I am so sorry to hear that you guys are going through this. We will keep her, your family and all of those involved in her treatment in prayer!
And Rita is absolutely right. There is a man at my church who has pancreatic cancer. They were 100% sure that he would die. He comes to every service and is doing wonderfully! His last scan came back CANCER FREE!
Reassure her (and yourself, of course) that prayers and a positive attitude will go a long way to a quick recovery!
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
{{{HUGS}}}