Raven, where are you??? Are you and David OK?? I have noticed you missing for several days and am starting to get worried about you!

Does anyone have her number???

Me too! Please come back ...

She's been taking care of David and just spending her time and energy where she should. Hopefully, we'll hear from her soon. :)

She's been on my mind lately, too. I hope all is well with her and David.

I had her number stored into my old phone but when it died I couldn't get all my numbers out. I pmed her a few days ago since I hadn't seen anything from her in a while and I haven't gotten anything back yet. I too have been worried about her and David. WE LOVE YOU RAVEN!

I am sure you guys have already done this, but has someone went to her profile and clicked on email me. Maybe she gets on her computer in a hurry and checks her emails, but hasn't had a chance to come here and talk??

I spoke with her via pm not too long ago...see above.

Lol sorry I seen everything before and after that post and some how missed that most have been skimming.

I hope everything is OK. I have missed her too.

Hi Guys -

Yeah, I'm alive and kickin'. David's just had so many problems since his second surgery in July. It's been such a struggle for him to eat that his weight dropped to 112 pounds. (His normal weight is 165.) He's just starting to gain a little - bit by bit. He's always nauseated, and is in a great deal of discomfort. He keeps getting infections and fevers. It's a constant "back and forth to the doctors" thang.

It sucks seeing the one that you love dwindle down to a whisper. I just haven't felt very socially-inclined.

I promise that I'll be back when I'm not so distracted because I do love you all so much. Thanks for caring.

Raven

Welcome back!! I don't know how I missed this post.
I hope he starts feeling better soon and make sure you are getting plenty of rest.Taking care of yourself is also very important.

He still weighs more than me at 112 lbs.

Oh, Raven. I'm so sorry to hear this. You two have been thru so much.

We fully understand your need to be with David. He should always come first no matter what. But know we are always here is you need us.

Sending prayers to both of you. <<hugs>>

We love you Raven!!! I'm so sorry to hear that he's lost so much weight. Don't worry about us, we'll still be here whenever you pop your head in!! Just be with your David!! ::BIG hugs for both of you::

I love you! (((((((((hugs))))))))

I phoned just now and spoke to David for a little bit. He said that he and she are doing fine and she is just preoccupied as crazy people tend to get at times. All is well.

Thats good to hear.

I'm so glad to hear she is OK. All glider owners understand crazy. Crazy is pretty common around here!

So glad to hear that!

Thanks, Kazko! I hope you told her it's just not right around here without her ...

Thanks for the update. I have been worried about them.

HI GANG!!

Sorry that I've gotten y'all worried. Actually - Everything is so much better. David is back up to 124 pounds and is getting stronger by the day. The man is eating like someone that's recently been rescued from a deserted island. It's amazing how much he can put away. He is still having issues from his most recent surgery, including the additional hernia that the surgeon "forgot" ; but all in all, he is on the upswing. And of course, since he's doing better, I'm doing better too.

I've just been working hard at my job, and getting all involved in my latest obsessions (like a typical crazy person). Plus, our son has moved back home. I got him a job at the monument company where I'm a CAD Designer, so I get to see him all the time now.

Life is good - and I'm sorry I haven't been around and had everyone worried. Forgive me?

I'm just glad to read that you're doing well! That's great news about David, too. I hope he keeps eating like that!

I'm absolutely serious and not exagerating at all:

This man eats 14 fig bars AFTER A FULL DINNER every night. Last night he had dinner, a generous piece of my strawberry cheesecake, AND 14 fig bars.

Forgive you? We'll think about it....

In the meantime, while I'm thinking about it...I MISS YOU!!! I'm so glad to hear good news too!

I missed you! I am so glad David is doing better, and you get to see your son every day! Still praying for you though, hoping you are getting some rest!!

Raven - Im sooooo glad to hear from you!!! And to get such wonderful news about David. Bless his heart - its about time he gets to enjoy his meals. And who could pass up homemade cheesecake!!!

And...having your son home and working with you!!! How awesome is that! We all know how much you missed not seeing him on a regular basis.

We'll forgive you since all is good on the home front. <<hugs>>

Now - come and say Hi to us every now and then!

Forgive you??!!?!? I for one have been worried snotless (I wish -- dang sinuses!) about you and especially about David. So glad he's doing better! It sounds like you're doing a great job of fattening him up. Good! He sure needs it. I hope his issues clear up soon. From now on don't be such a stranger, you know we love you.
So ... forgive you? Of course!

Forgive you - how could we not?! Everyone here loves you. I am very happy to hear such good news.