I am having a hard time coping with the loss of my suggie. I miss her happy noises when she was in my shirt and just being with her. It is a lot harder than I thought.

i know....i'm so sorry. It hurts me to see you in so much pain too. I'm so very sorry about your baby kiki and for you.

::huggs::

I'm so sorry. We're all here for you.

Im so sorry. It's so hard to lose one we love. <<hugs>>

I keep thinking..."If I would have done this, or tried that" maybe she would be here. I want to get another suggie, but I want it to work out too.

We can all make daisy chains of blame, and take on the whole weight of the world. Please don't do that. It's possible that she had a stroke, or that she had a birth defect like a hear murmur; it's not your fault. You didn't neglect her or mistreat her. So it's okay.

Grief is really hard to get through. There is another side, and you'll make it there one day.
When you do, you'll be ready to try again. We have faith in you.