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AshleyJ Glider  USA 158 Posts I agree with you, I just hope before anyone decides to "be mean" that we at least check the post count of the person posting. I only say that because I found this forum when I needed help after I got my gliders from my mom. Luckily, mine weren't sick, but I did get great information that I needed. I'm only saying that someone who is in "panic" mode because something is really wrong with a glider that they purchased may come here desperate for answers. Humans buy on impulse, my dog is a product of that. If someone is told by <s>Pocket Pets</s>, I mean, a company selling gliders that they are no maintenance, the owner may not already have a "vet fund" set aside or even know that sugar gliders require an exotic vet. TJones09 Goofy Gorillatoes      3524 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by AshleyJ</i> <br />I agree with you, I just hope before anyone decides to "be mean" that we at least check the post count of the person posting. I only say that because I found this forum when I needed help after I got my gliders from my mom. Luckily, mine weren't sick, but I did get great information that I needed. I'm only saying that someone who is in "panic" mode because something is really wrong with a glider that they purchased may come here desperate for answers. Humans buy on impulse, my dog is a product of that. If someone is told by <s>Pocket Pets</s>, I mean, a company selling gliders that they are no maintenance, the owner may not already have a "vet fund" set aside or even know that sugar gliders require an exotic vet. <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> I agree, there are ways to give factual information in a kind, caring way, I never see reason for meanness. Otherwise, very good advise given by Valkyremome. fazioli Face Hugger    906 Posts To be honest, it is not being "mean" when we are telling someone that their glider is going to die if you do not get them to the vet as soon as possible. It is the truth...if someone posts that their glider is not moving, lying at the bottom of the cage, won't eat, won't drink, etc. then the truth is that if you do not get the glider to a vet immediately, it will not make it until morning. Why dance around it, trying to sound nice, when if you "scare" them by saying, your glider is going to die if you do not get them to a vet, then maybe just maybe they will make the effort to get them to the vet. I understand if someone comes on here saying, "quick, I need the number for a vet consult", but not, "why is my glider like this, what should I do". The answer will always be, get them to the vet immediately. If someone doesn't want to listen to that advice, then so be it, but do not come on here asking for sympathy when the glider does pass. Sorry, if that seems callous, but when you tell someone to get to the vet, and they choose not to, then there will be no sympathy from me. I would drive HOURS to find a vet if I absolutely had to, so really there is no excuse. If that is rude, so be it...I honestly don't care at this point. I totally agree with this topic...an impulse buy is just that, but once someone starts doing their research, they will find out pretty quickly what needs to be done to take care of a glider properly. ETA: I guess I shouldn't say "scare" because it really isn't a scare tactic per se, just trying to get people to see that get them to the vet and don't waste your time trying to figure out why they are lying there on the bottom of the cage. We are not vets, we cannot diagnose...we can give advice on things such as bonding, diet, etc. but when it comes down to it, if it is something out of the norm for your glider or something very serious, then you should always consult with a vet. There...off my soapbox now!  Rowangel Glider  USA 173 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by valkyriemome</i> <br />Panic mode or not. Vet fund or not. The truth is that if you find your glider lying on the cage floor, listless and cold - it is going to die. Too many times I've seen that, and the owner is told "Go to a VET!" and they argue with such intensity that "There isn't an exotic vet." or "I don't have the money." or "I will wait until morning." Sorry - regardless of what that person was told by a Mill Broker, I'm going to tell them straight up, "If you don't go to a vet tonight, your glider is going to die." I'm not going to bash them for their purchasing decisions, or their dietary decisions, or bash them at all. But I will tell them the cold truth - their glider is dying. <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Love it. Your not mean, just straight up honest. This looks like it may need to be a sticky thread Rowangel Glider  USA 173 Posts Yup, happened at night for me. Also, one thing about emergency vets - you show up with your pet and 9x out of 10 they wont turn you away as long as you make a case for yourself. Emergency people WANT to help and clinics WANT to get paid. Many of the simple things that would help stabilize a glider until a consult can be arranged via the phone they do regularly for cats/dogs. What is soooo important about 'GET TO A VET' is even if they have never seen a sugar glider before they have access to the medical resources (machines, drugs and so-on) that could save your baby. Your glider is better off with fluids, oxygen, PAIN relief and heat packs at a vet waiting for the Doctors to figure out what a sugar glider is, than at home where it can't receive any help. Don't call, GO! kyro298 Glider Sprinkles           CO, USA 15262 Posts prettyinpink5808 Fuzzy Wuzzy      1223 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Rowangel</i> <br />Yup, happened at night for me. Also, one thing about emergency vets - you show up with your pet and 9x out of 10 they wont turn you away as long as you make a case for yourself. Emergency people WANT to help and clinics WANT to get paid. Many of the simple things that would help stabilize a glider until a consult can be arranged via the phone they do regularly for cats/dogs. What is soooo important about 'GET TO A VET' is even if they have never seen a sugar glider before they have access to the medical resources (machines, drugs and so-on) that could save your baby. Your glider is better off with fluids, oxygen, PAIN relief and heat packs at a vet waiting for the Doctors to figure out what a sugar glider is, than at home where it can't receive any help. Don't call, GO! <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Good point! I like the way you said this valkyriemome Goofy Gorillatoes      USA 3479 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by prettyinpink5808</i> <br /><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Rowangel</i> <br />Yup, happened at night for me. Also, one thing about emergency vets - you show up with your pet and 9x out of 10 they wont turn you away as long as you make a case for yourself. Emergency people WANT to help and clinics WANT to get paid. Many of the simple things that would help stabilize a glider until a consult can be arranged via the phone they do regularly for cats/dogs. What is soooo important about 'GET TO A VET' is even if they have never seen a sugar glider before they have access to the medical resources (machines, drugs and so-on) that could save your baby. Your glider is better off with fluids, oxygen, PAIN relief and heat packs at a vet waiting for the Doctors to figure out what a sugar glider is, than at home where it can't receive any help. Don't call, GO! <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Good point! I like the way you said this <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Sad that you speak from so much experience. But you are a case-in-point, Rowangel. If you'd sat on your heels, or called and been told "No" and believed them - you'd have lost your adorable boy. You are an example for all of us! Omis n Kais g-ma Pouch Protector        TX, USA 7524 Posts I have never had an emergency vet turn me down. A few years back I rescued a ferret and I live in California, he was really sick. I actually called the emergency vet and they had no problem treating him. Emergency people want to help animals maybe even more so then some vets(from my experience) and like Rowangel said clinics want money. Its kind of rare that they turn you down
Rowangel Glider  USA 173 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by valkyriemome</i> Sad that you speak from so much experience. But you are a case-in-point, Rowangel. If you'd sat on your heels, or called and been told "No" and believed them - you'd have lost your adorable boy. You are an example for all of us! <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> There were a couple times when if we had 'waited' I know we would have lost Casey. What frustrates me are people who say 'well, this is happening, but he seems ok...I can't afford a vet does he REALLY need to go in?' If this was a human family member, would it even be up for discussion??? You find away to make it work! Most clinics have payment plans available, so their really is no excuse IMO. apricot0205 Glider   97 Posts I am a fairly new glider mama and this is a no-brainer to me. When I got my second boy, my first boy got diahhrea. As soon as I noticed this, I quickly got some Pedyalite into him and called the exotic vet. They saw me within 30 minutes - luckly I have an exotic vet near me. Not only did I take Suggs to get checked, get fluids and antibiotics, I also had Albert (the new boy) checked out as well just in case. Everything was fine, negative fecals on both, and Suggie might have had an UTI; he was 5% dehydrated and the vet sub-qd 8cc of liquid into him. After a week of antibiotics, a few days of extra liquids fed by mama, he is fine and dandy. It was $250 for that visit but well worth the money to know my boys are allright and will thrive with me for many years to come. Something_To_Believe_In Face Hugger    647 Posts Yes, telling someone their glider will die is not rude. But, should you tell them HOW the glider will die (slowly and possibly painfully) then you shall for all time become a monster worthy of being called names and deemed evil on all forums. :) OR, you could just be right and speaking from way more experience than you wish. Never call an emergency vet and ask if they see sugar gliders. Most of them will say "no." It makes no sense to call ahead. If your child were injured, would you call the emergency room to see if they treat broken arms or constipation? I have had 4 personal experiences with receiving treatment from emergency vets who SAID that they don't treat gliders. I'm working on a write up for TSS about how to approach this situation, but it is not too different from what Lori posted above. Help is always available to you if you really want it. ;) <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Rowangel</i> <br /><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by valkyriemome</i> <br />I'm not going to bash them for their purchasing decisions, or their dietary decisions, or bash them at all. But I will tell them the cold truth - their glider is dying. <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Love it. Your not mean, just straight up honest. <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> i agree completely. i have seen you do this very thing, Val, and i don't think it is mean at all. It is the simple fact of the matter. When you see a doctor and he recommends a treatment or procedure, he is required by law to tell you the risks and benefits of the treatment as well as what you can expect to happen if you choose not to have the treatment. This is called "informed consent." Giving someone the facts, "If you do not get your glider to a vet ASAP it is likely that your pet will not survive the night," is not mean or cruel. It is attempting to give someone the essential information they need to make the choice to get their glider treatment or not. Ultimately that decision is up to them, but not saying, "Your glider will die," is withholding vital information that may help them make the decision more clearly and quickly. <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Rowangel</i> <br />Your glider is better off with fluids, oxygen, PAIN relief and heat packs at a vet waiting for the Doctors to figure out what a sugar glider is, than at home where it can't receive any help. Don't call, GO! <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> i think this is a great point, Rowangel! We get into the mindset that we should ONLY take our babies to an exotics vet who has experience with sugar gliders, and there are good reasons to have that policy. But in an emergency situation, any vet should be able to at least do more than you can do at home to try to stabilize your baby. Rowangel Glider  USA 173 Posts <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Something_To_Believe_In</i> <br />Yes, telling someone their glider will die is not rude. But, should you tell them HOW the glider will die (slowly and possibly painfully) then you shall for all time become a monster worthy of being called names and deemed evil on all forums. :) OR, you could just be right and speaking from way more experience than you wish. Never call an emergency vet and ask if they see sugar gliders. Most of them will say "no." It makes no sense to call ahead. If your child were injured, would you call the emergency room to see if they treat broken arms or constipation? I have had 4 personal experiences with receiving treatment from emergency vets who SAID that they don't treat gliders. I'm working on a write up for TSS about how to approach this situation, but it is not too different from what Lori posted above. <b>Help is always available to you if you really want it.</b> ;) <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Exactly.
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