I find offense to your clean home statement and also the baby/toddler statement.
I have 2 toddlers; They don't go near my cage 99.5% of the time and if I DO let them near the cage then they just look at the toys. My kids are asleep before I do tent time, they are asleep even before the gliders get up. If I need to take the gliders to the vet then I either bring the kids or my husband watches them-and they are well behaved at the Veterinarian too.
Also what do you define as "clean"? My clean and your clean are probably two different things. I love it when my house is all dusted and windex'd, all my papers are put in there proper places, etc. BUT I know that with a family I can't spend all day cleaning because then I would be neglecting them-and I don't at night cause that's when I spend time with my gliders-so, as long as laundry is "done" (it's never done), the floors and counters are clean, dishes clean, etc then my house is clean. My gliders get an hour of tent time every night, so if I leave dishes in the sink one night it doesn't mean that my gliders are neglected. There are lots of respected breeders who have children, I guarantee from time to time they leave their socks on the floor.
I don't think you need to judge people with out knowing their situation.
With my gliders from Cora she asked me things like: What diet do I feed/plan on feeding, what size cage will they be in, who is my ER Vet, how much tent time will they receive? These are more important then pictures of a spotless house and whether or not they have a baby/toddler.