A few thoughts:
I noticed you had an earlier post about Gizmo and his recently more "potent" scent marking (the really smelly white stuff). Two of my gliders are currently going through "glider puberty" and have begun doing that (scent marking) as well. The reason I mention this is that it's possible that Gizmo is also going through puberty and is beginning to discover himself sexually. Please look up "flossing" on here to determine if that is a possibility instead of SM.
That said, no matter how much you love him, you can't replace the friendship another sugar glider could provide. :( I'm sure at least three other people will respond to this thread saying the same thing: "gliders are colony animals and should NOT be housed alone." Solo gliders are much more likely to self-mutilate, and even if what he's doing now is just "flossing," Gizmo is at risk for this behavior and, as you stated in your post COULD BE SELF MUTILATING already. If this is the case, you need to get him a glider friend ASAP. I believe this is your intent, so I'm not going to belabor that point. :)
Also, please be aware that if he is already harming his cloaca / genitalia, you'll have to be extra careful in the days following his neuter and should DEFINITELY purchase and use an e-collar to prevent him from bothering the neuter wound.
Hope this helps