I completely understand you, I am sort of the same way. Gliders act a little different when they are just waking up, they can be more clumsy, and skittish, specially if something just comes out of nowhere, sort of like what your male did when she wan in the pouch, that is probably why she crab and lunge at him (my female does the same).
They also seem to be affected by moon phases, pressure changes, and whatnot.
Glad to hear they are doing better, though.