3 months oop will definitely grow significantly more; our babies just turned 4 months and are now almost as big as their dad, but still not there yet. She probably won't get as big as your male, but at this point you can't help that; I'd say wait until 4-5 months, or you could just go for it; it's unlikely a male/female pair will fight, especially if they're both craving another glider, but if it did happen it would probably end badly. Anyways, a month is no problem if you're doing the 30 day quarantine anyways. See how she looks at 4 months, and you can choose if you want to wait longer then. Our middle gliders were basically full grown at around 6 months. They're 10 months now and have hardly changed since 6/7 months. Our 4 babies are 4 months and we now have to look twice to see if it's baby or dad because they're a lot bigger than they were even at 3 months.