Well, I'm no expert, but since her former mate is now with the other two, maybe try the bonding bags with the three in one and her alone in the other, see how she reacts now that her mate is with them. I really don't have any other suggestions, but hopefully someone who does will be here shortly to help you.
I used scent swapping & mingling then moved on to bonding pouches. I never had the situation where I could even have their cages in the same room, so I used the bonding bags, single layered fleece. I introduced a single male to my female pair. That is the only experience I have, but it worked well for me.