Hi.
First, if you could take the time to read the link below, it will help you understanding your gliders better and how they feel:
www.glidercentral.net/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php/topics/922929/Building_a_Relationship_with_y#Post922929
Second, about bonding with babies vs bonding with adults. It is a lie that a baby will bond better than an adult. Each glider is different, and they will bond at different paces and degrees. The claim is that an adult glider may already be bonded to someone else, but that doesn't mean they can't bond to anyone else; they will miss their previous human and other gliders (if they were housed with other gliders), but with time they will overcome that and get attached to their new owner. There is also the possibility that older gliders have been mistreated and therefore are more wary of humans, but with love and patience, you can teach them to trust you. As for babies, they tend to be more scared at first, which can make the bonding process harder, not easier. You just have to get to know them and understand that they each are different.
There will always be a glider that is braver than the other(s), and will take initiative in coming to you; usually the shier gliders will follow his/her example and eventually they will come to you and bond with you. Again, just understand that they are different.
The first day or more it is recommended to leave them undisturbed in their new environment, so they can start getting used to it. If you want to keep them in their room, that is ok, just know that they can be noisy. The tv on is fine, just try to keep it away from them, so the light does not disturb them at much; they may be uncomfortable with it, but they can get used to it.
Now, I think that answers most of your questions; so if you don't mind me I'll like to add some more.
1. Is the male neutered? If he is not, he WILL mate with his mother and not only will you have to deal with joeys, you will have to deal with INBRED joeys.
2. What diet will you be offering? Gliders need a nectar like diet in combination with fruits and veggies. If you are not sure, you can find some of the more widely used diets below:
www.sugarglider.com/gliderpedia/index.asp?Diet
3. How big is the cage? The minimum cage size should be no less than 18" deep x 30" wide x 36" tall.
4. Do you have a glider-safe wheel? Gliders are very active critters and therefore need to have a wheel in their cage. But they also don't run in their wheels like other animals, so a hamster wheel won't be appropriate for them. Below is a list of safe wheels:
www.sugarglider.com/gliderpedia/index.asp?ExerciseWheels
www.humbertossugargliders.com/hwheelv2.0.html
5. Have you found a vet near you? Unlike most other pets, gliders don't require vaccinations, but they still need to be seen, at least yearly, by an exotic vet for a check up. You can find vets near you using this database:
www.sugargliderhelp.com/links/pages/Sugar_Glider_Vet_Database/
I am not trying to be annoying, just trying to cover the basics.
Congratulation on your new babies and good luck.