Unfortunately it's not really safe to let him loose in the house, especially if you're not bonded with him yet. Chasing him around the cage to grab him is probably scaring him (as evidenced from him hiding). That's probably setting back your progress wth him, to be honest.
How have you tried working with him over the last year so far? More info would be helpful so we don't give you advice you've already tried... But...
To enjoy out-of-cage time with your glider, you should look into getting a mesh bug tent (Sansbug is a popular brand). These pop up tents provide a safe place for your glider to explore while still being forced to be close to you. He'll climb you and learn you are safe. Tent time (or bathroom time, in a small glider proof bathroom) is great to try during the night or eve, when he is most active.
In the day time, carry him around in a bonding pouch. I like to take my gliders with me almost everywhere. If he isn't comfortable being toted around yet, you can keep him in his bonding pouch while you relax (watching TV/reading/surfing the net), any stationary activity really. He'll learn your scent this way too.
If you haven't tried scent bonding yet, it's really easy. Get some fleece, cut it into 4x4" squares, and tuck them into your dirty laundry pile. The fleece will hold your scent (and the scent of your family if you'd like). Then add a square of this scented fleece to his sleeping pouch. He'll smell you as he snoozes, and start to associate you with safety.
As always, a liberal handfeeding of his favorite fruit or vegetable, or yogurt on a spoon/your finger will be helpful in warming him up. Talk to him, give him treats, he'll come around!
And last for now, when you are wanting to take him out of his cage, either offer him a bonding pouch or pouch to climb into, instead of grabbing him. Gliders are prey animals and a grabby outstretched hand can trigger the instinct to panic, as it's not unlike bird talons or wild cat paws to him. Offer a pouch, and sweeten the deal with a fragrant treat to entice him in!