Depression won't kill him, I wish people would quite telling new owners that.
The diet could be a concern, they may not be getting all the nutrients their bodies need. There are many widely used staple diets out there that provide calcium and other minerals and vitamins gliders need to stay healthy long term. Bml is usually the one I recommend to my mentees, it's easy to make and find the ingredients.
http://www.bmldiet.com/
the recipe and instructions can be found on that link. There are other diets out there if you need more options I'd be happy to give you more links. No matter what diet you chose please follow the recipe to the T and serving instructions. One simple ingredient change can throw the whole diet off and make it unbalanced.
what kind of meat ?
What kind of wheel do you have?
Glider safe toys would help them be more stimulated, if you don't have any for them it'd be a good idea to get some or make some.
Sounds like you have very young joeys, please keep in mind it will take some time for them to begin to trust you. Everything they knew has changed and it takes some time to adjust.
As far as the males head being white/yellow he is probably starting to develop his scent gland. Intact males get a "bald spot" on their head which is a scent gland, it excretes oils which can make the fur around the gland turn yellow... completely normal. It would be a good idea to get him neutered and the cage mate if it's a male as well.
Do you have a glider experienced vet near you ?