One week is a very short time, so there's nothing worrying, some gliders are immediately friendly, others may take a lot longer to warm up.
I think you are trying to go too fast with her, take your time, try to not have expectations, because she can sense your frustration, and it makes it more difficult for her to trust you (would you trust a stranger which seems to be expecting much from you?).
Holding her might not be a good idea, many gliders do not like to be held and prefer come to you on their terms.