Stella is adorable! I'm sure her sibling joey is as well and I hope you find good homes for them. Please relay all the information that you have discovered through out your research.
I'm sure it is nice to have others near by that have sugar gliders, but this community is here for you, so do not feel alone.
I do recommend that you have your male neutered so they do not produce any more joeys you are left to find homes for.