There are two new posts asking for help to convince parents to allow them to get gliders. Now Personally I have no issues with responsible young folks having gliders, however I feel the parents need to be involved and want them as well. If the child presents it to the parents, have researched and shows the parent why the gliders are a good fit, and the parent agrees.... perfect.
Having said that, it is NOT our place to help minors convince their parents, for many reasons. We do not know the families financial status, and the kids may not either. We do not know if the parents are willing to transport and pay for vet care if they need it. We do not know far to many things about these situations. If the parent is hesitant to let their child own gliders, perhaps there is a good reason for it.
I have seen gliders in desperate need of medical attention and parents refuse to take them to the vet for the child. The child is then force to beg for help from the online community, mean while the glider is suffering, waiting for help and often passes away before help can be arranged.
Children may be asked to surrender the glider by people trying to help, and they may agree, without fully understanding just WHAT that means.
On the flip side, I have mentored teens who are fabulous glider owners, with their parents assistance. Their parents are involved, are committed and make sure their child is committed. They are prepared for medical emergencies and have done their own research as well as making sure the child has as well.
But again, it is not for us to make these decisions for unaware, unprepared parents who have not researched gliders on their own. Parent's who's vehicle, credit card, finances, time, will need to be utilized to care for these gliders for their child.
To the kids asking for help convincing your parents.... Invite your parents to educate themselves about gliders, research them, ask people in the community who own gliders questions. Ask your parents if they would be willing to obligate themselves to the gliders and whatever they may need, whether it's food, vet, transportation for those things, using their cc to buy glider safe items that are NOT in normal pet stores. You WILL need the help of your parents and they WILL need to be involved.
You do not want to find yourself begging the online community for help at 2 am because your glider is sick or injured or dying in your hands and your parents refuse to take it to the vet. If you think it won't or can't happen to you, You are WRONG and I can get real life, emergency 2 or 3 am posts begging for ANYONE to help them. I can post entire conversations of real life, trying to help the glider. Of real people spending 4 or 5 hours talking to the owner, trying to get the parents involved. I can also show you how helpless the ones feel when trying to pull of a miracle from 1500 miles away. Frantically finding a vet anywhere near the owner.
I can show you that without the assistance from willing parents gliders suffer and die. I can so you how the owner is nothing less than devastated when it happens.
I can show you how people that try desperately to help and are to far away to do anything other than comfort and console the owner and if they CAN manage to arrange help for the glider, then they get slammed for dealing with a minor who is legally NOT able to surrender a glider or buy or sell gliders, all because they want to help the glider when the parents refused.
So Please, do not put US or Yourself or your parents and most importantly any potential glider in this situation. If your parents say no, accept that and wait until you are out on your own and able to provide your OWN transportation, your OWN credit card, Your own vet fund, etc. before risking the life of a glider who didn't ask to be in your care. This is not meant to scare you, this is meant to make you aware of what happens on a daily basis. Your parents need to be on board with this decision and if they aren't then your putting gliders in a unstable environment.
Your asking us to give suggestions on convincing YOUR parents, it really wouldn't be very responsible of us to do that. Personally, my responsibility is to the potential gliders your parents don't seem to want. It is Your responsibility to explain to them why YOU want them and what YOU are going to be responsible for and what you will need your parents help with.