I have found this to be the hardest part of glider parenthood. It took months before my female bonded to me. She lunged, crabbed, bit, etc. All I can say is to keep at it. Your patience will pay off. Keep doing what you're doing and she will come around. The video Leela sent is extremely helpful. My little one is so snugly and affectionate now. And guess what? I really miss hearing her crab now