number 3. I would limit the time in bonding pouch, my wife's most favorite has several hours a day to start bonding. now she may put him in bra and he will sometimes stay there all day sleeping. specially if you have more then one in cage, they also like to sleep together all curled up and warm. I don't think longer times is bad, but just not completely important.. see last paragraph.
Number 4. We put food in cage about 10 pm, our 3 colony wakes up at 10 pm, our 7 colony wakes up at 11 to 12 midnight. it takes some time for new gliders to get into a habit. our 7 colony eats well and sleeps almost all day. Our newer 3 colony wouldn't eat the HPW much and barely touched fruits and veggies, soon they were eating the hpw well. then it seemed like WEEKS before they would even eat the fruits/veggies. Now they eat hpw and spit it all over kitchen wall, and eat up lots of the veggies and fruits.
first 2 questions: I see bonding with your glider, which is programmed to see you as a super large predator as slowly understanding you are NOT going to eat them, and you are part of their colony. I see things like your scent, darkish room, GLIDER safe room, a tasty snack as important, not time with outside world. Gliders are explorers and food scavengers, so letting them run around a large room doesn't seem to hurt our bonding. You most make your glider room safe and with no run away spots, an unbonded glider might not come back, and finding them is HARD. if your scent is all messed up with perfumes fancy soaps or steak or cheeseburger, your glider may struggle to figure out if you are friend or enemy or food. Our gliders love live mealies and some may accidentally take our finger with the mealie, very painful, other gliders never get my finger. a tasty live or freeze dried meal worm will keep your glider knowing your a good place to hang out during bonding tent time.
SINGLE FILE FOR FOOD, YOUR MOMMIES HAS THE TREATS.