I too have heard those stories about "females stealing others' babies" repeated all the time, the problem is that it is the exception rather than the rule. Many breeders have couples rather than colonies (for obvious reasons, it allows to control the lineage), so few have 1st hand experience with colonies, yet the myth sticks (remind me, wild gliders live in.. colonies, there are multiple females in those, yet they do still breed...)
Facts are that it is a possibility, but by experience it's as uncommon as rejected joeys, when the females are members of a
stable colony.
When it occures, there is almost always another factor, such as stress caused by a recent introduction which destabilised the colony hierarchy, environmental changes, not nutritionnally balanced diet, disease, parasites and so on, yet people focuse on the "2 females" factor and disregard other factors alltogether.
In the present case, the male is a relatively new introduction inside a colony which was stable since 5 years (underlying tensions); If the male entered sexual maturity, it's possible that the females heat are the problem (I have 1 female who is agressive when she is in heat); if the one female had joeys in pouch, it being he 1st pregnancy it is also possible that she gets really defensive toward anyone.