Leela and BYK_Chainsaw both shared wonderful ideas and suggestions so I would definitely re-read their posts. Extremely accurate and helpful!
I understand your feelings about Pocket Pets. I had no idea what a sugar glider was until I saw PP at a Christmas bazaar 2 years ago. I was instantly hooked and after giving it much thought I decided to adopt a little female. Like you, after bringing her home and later hearing all these negative things about PP, I was so discouraged and worried that I rushed into this and was doing all the wrong things. However, like Leela mentioned, it doesn't matter where a glider comes from...only that you have them now. You are obviously very committed to your gliders, doing your research and wanting to take the very best care of them.
I will always be grateful to PP because through them I ended up with the most amazing sugar glider ever. But being a new "parent", I trusted everything that they told me and now realize that not all of their advice was in the gliders best interests (hence the importance of learning). BYK already mentioned these things but I think it's important to repeat them. Things that I was told by PP (in quotes) that I now disagree with.....
1. "Your glider will be fine in this cage."
For starters it's great, but gliders need room to move around, to play and glide. I would get the largest cage that you can afford and have room for. For 2 gliders the minimum size would be 24" deep, 24" wide, and 36" high (height is important for gliders). Also, bar spacing should be no more than 1/2".
2. "The heat rock is necessary for young gliders in order for them to maintain their heat."
Absolutely not! Too risky and they are fine without it. If you're concerned about warmth, you can always use fleece squares in their pouches (kind of like a little blanket).
3. "Gliders will get along with all pets except snakes. We've never had an issue"
No way! While I wish I could see my little one interact with my parrot and my sister's dog and cats, it is not worth the risk. Animals are unpredictable. I've heard touching bonding stories as well as horror stories. Better safe than sorry!
4. "Our wheel is the safest."
I really don't know about this one. But their wheel looks very much like a wodent wheel which is extremely dangerous. I'd much rather get a wheel that others here in the glider community have recommended (like stealth or raptor).
5. "Our diet is the best, recommended by a top veterinarian."
While they have made improvements, our exotic vet recommended BML which is nutritionally balanced (HPW is also a really good one). Also, PP said the only thing you need to give them in addition to their main staple is a slice of apple each night. In fact, they need variety (generally 1 TBS of fruits and 1 TBS of veggies per glider each day....NEVER blended (like a smoothie) since they spit out the fibers that they can't digest).
6. "Your glider will bond to you quickly."
Oh how I wish this was true! While many gliders bond quickly, my little girl was extremely scared and it took awhile to gain her trust. But she ended up being extremely bonded and attached. The time, patience and love you put into it is so totally worth it!
Lastly (and thanks for bearing with me
), I can't stress this enough....please, PLEASE don't take your gliders outside unless they are secured in a safe bonding pouch (I learned this the hard way). The PP rep told me that bonded gliders will stay with you and come back to you. Usually this is the case, but it's not worth taking chances.
We all love our gliders and want them to thrive. We do the best we can and learn as we go. You are in for such a treat. Enjoy your sweet babies!