Hello,
I'm so sorry for your losses.
Did you have an X-ray?
I can't say I have the answers, obviously, but my glider died of a huge tumor that had taken over many of her organs and was basically starving her and giving her pain so she moved slowly and carefully. It was awful to watch. Until I had pain meds for her she wouldn't eat or drink. It also caused a major infection which I gave her antibiotics for (before we knew it was a tumor). The antibiotics seemed to help but as I said the tumor was huge and had taken over her body.
So yes, she had similar symptoms. She did not pass as quickly as your gliders though.
I can only guess why she had a tumor, but if I did have to guess I would say these things happen and probably happen more with inbred gliders. I would guess she was inbred...I didn't get her from a reputable breeder. But anyway, that's my story. Her brother seems fine so far. I watch him very carefully and keep my fingers crossed for now.