first... relax.
second. bonding can take a long time, depending on the glider can take a really long time.
I would slow down for a few weeks, start with sitting next to cage at night when she comes out for food and talk to her. give her a few treats threw the cage bars.
if that works out, then days later try opening cage door and hand feeding her a few treats.
a REAL bonding pouch comes with a zipper, so you put her in, zip it up and she CAN'T get out.
have a piece of fleece available, about 2 foot by 2 foot. if she gets loose, I think its best to try to cover her with this then take control of her, then put her back to cage.
If you want to keep bonding in pouch that is ok to, most gliders PUT OFF AFFECTS OF THESE LITTLE MISHAPS. My gliders don't like nail cutting, but they don't hold it against me. gliders act one way at sleepy daytimes, gliders act differently at awake night times. One of my gliders acts like they don't want to be around me after waking up, but about 1 hour later want to get a treat from me.
But you do want to avoid your glider thinking your hands are a bad thing, so I let gliders walk on me more then try to grab them, I get them to walk on my hand to get a dried mealworm or the best treat LIVE mealworms. over time your glider will start staying you your hand to eat the treats.
for bonding pouch, its best to find time you will be sitting still most of the time, but glider in pouch, ZIP UP QUICKLY, and sit with glider talk to them, and let them sleep. so bonding pouch, IMO, is to be used during daytime sleep hours, NOT night time. when finished, but zipped up pouch in cage then open, so they are in cage when they leave pouch.