HI! I'm in New York, not sure where you are. I currently have two older sugar gliders, I'm guessing at age 4 or so. They were re homed to me by my son. He got them from one of his "friends". He, obviously didn't have time for them. They were very anti-social when I first got them a year ago. Since then, I have given them a bigger and more loving home. They are bonding well with me and I can now have out of cage playtime, and let them hang out with me without a bonding pouch anymore. They are male and female both fixed. Are yours fixed? If you have any questions, feel free to contact me 607-382-6523 I am home all the time now. My children are all grown and on their own now.