Actually, it's not so much the age which is important than the size/weight. It is better to wait that they all have roughly similar size/weight to do intros.
I've never observed silent balling up, but either way, even noisy ones can be a source of injuries, so I'm always careful when I hear mines squabble. as a rule, if they don't break it up before 200 seconds I do separate them (and usually get bitten in the way but well...)