you have a hard one. sounds like you have your bases covered
washing your hands and all the rest of the stuff you are trying.
One thing that comes to mind, something I would try a few times.
the way I heard you train a parrot not to bite or bond with you.
hold your glider in a fleece blankie and then pet him on the head,
holding him in a way that he can't bite you. try to get him used
to you petting him, and petting him around his head, without him
biting you.
If you feed him treats by hand, maybe switch to having a tray in
your hand.