I just got two gliders the male is pretty good the female is grouchy spends a lot of time in the pouch any recommendations for bonding and what are the do’s and don’ts in bonding with a glider what should I expect

if you do a search you will find a ton of suggestions.
there is also a bonding section on many websites.

top tips for me.
1. Bonding or taming can take a LONG time, and sometimes is accomplished in
slow and long baby steps. as gliders can be very scared of a huge human and
getting comfortable with you is not easy for some gliders.
2. use a bonding pouch, some gliders don't like this and will continue to
claw and chew at it until let out. let them smell your scent, putting your
hand in pouch during daytime, let them sleep with your hand.
3. spend time with them, talk to them, give them some treats.

I saw a youtube video, get the glider pee on your hands, then hold the glider
in your hands, after a few times, the scent will make them trust your hands and
they will sit in your hands without being scared.