Your post is a little difficult to follow but I will try to sort out your questions to be answered.
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i was able to get another Glider 2 or 3 my friend lost track of the time kinda,
I assume that you mean 2 or 3 MONTHS OOP.
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her females Joeys already been checked by a vet and was in a lil colony of 8 or 9, my question is will Zadr be okay with her?
Allowing gliders to breed in a colony can result in INBREEDING. If there are multiple intact males in the colony there is no way of knowing which male is the father. In a colony - male gliders will breed with their mother or sisters. The father may also breed with daughters. Your female may be the product of inbreeding and could have health issues that are not visible.
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As of right now I let them meet They've just been sniffing each other and running away then going back to each other I've heard some noises though one's like a clicking it sounds like crabbing but not mean the best way i can describe is is kinda like a sound a cricket or grass hopper would make kinda a chirp. Is that a good sign
Yes it is a good sign. Both gliders are young and both are probably happy to have another glider companion. Young gliders are very easy to introduce to each other. The fact that they did not fight when put together is good - but separating them may make them both depressed especially if you put them together and separate them often.
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Neither are fixed I've decided I want to breed, My friends dad said it wasn't that hard, Theirs had bread twice and they really didn't half to do anything besides change the females diet a bit, and they didn't really half to raise the Joeys till they could be hand Trained when they were grown up enough to come out on their own, unless his wife did more of the work, but none were never rejected, "Was that normal or just luck?" one of the Glider sites said they could be bonded in a week or two if they really get along,
Just so you understand - female gliders cannot be fixed. They have a complicated reproductive system and the surgery would be so invasive that it could be life threatening. Neutering Male gliders is safe and the best way to prevent breeding.
Your plans to breed these two gliders may be setting you and the gliders up for heart break. First - your female may already be the product of inbreeding which may cause problems with future joeys. If you do not have lineage on your male - you have no way to guarantee that he is not related to the female which could compound the problem. This pair of gliders are not well suited for successful breeding and the resulting joeys may have health issues that could cause them to be rejected.
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how long should i wait before putting them in the same cage,
If you are going to allow them to breed - they should not share a cage until your female is at least 10 to 11 months OOP to prevent her from becoming pregnant before her own growth and bone development is complete. Even occasional play time between the two gliders could result in breeding before she is full grown.
If you neuter your male - they can become cage mates immediately after the surgery.
Keeping them apart will be hard on both gliders. They know another glider is near by and they want to be together. You will also have to clean and maintain two cages for the next 8 months or so. There is also a chance that as they get older living alone in a cage, they will become territorial and it may be more difficult to introduce them later with out fighting - it probably will not be an issue but the possibility is still there.
If you neuter your male and introduce them right away both gliders and you will be happy. Then after a year or so of enjoying them as cherished pets - if YOU still want to experience breeding gliders you could purchase a pair of gliders with lineage to guarantee they are not related and allow that pair to breed.