Oh my goodness.
I agree with Blue. Please don't punish your glider with no food and water. He is acting on instinct as animals do, and will not understand the punishment. Instead, if anything, you should be giving him as well as his colony more food and in several spots throughout the cage. Since there's already food aggression I would probably make three feeding stations with plenty of food in each.
And also Blue is right about the males all fighting for mating rights with the female.
Last, welcome to the forum! It seems you own many gliders if I read your post right, but I would still recommend reading the posts on this site for information on diet, bonding, food aggression, and anything else that seems interesting to you. I thought I knew a lot about gliders until I began reading the posts on this site (and others!). I wish you and your gliders good luck!