He definitely doesn't hate you...he would be lunging and biting you thru a pouch
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Another thing you can try is...instead of grabbing him and trying to confine him with your hands...
Take his sleeping pouch when it's time to go back to the cage and let him jump in it then hold the top closed if he decides he would rather jump out and continue play time.
You can put a little treat in there to help coax him in too.
Grabbing them and chasing them can set you back because they will feel like you are a predator coming after and catching them.
Even reaching in over their heads can make them very nervous until they know you and trust you completely. Treats and patience is the key.
If you have to grab them, you can use a big piece of fleece or use a pouch like a mitt, then they won't associate your hands with grabbing them. Your hands should be associated with good petting and treats.
You have only had them a very short time and you are already seeing great progress.
It is really hard on us to wait and we get to thinking things are not progressing but it's really about how long the gliders take to trust you, and you can't really rush that.
Some of my gliders I have had a less amount of time are definitely more bonded to me that my first gliders I have had for 2 years.
Keep doing what you are doing, keeping a schedule for play time will help a lot too.
Do you have a bonding pouch? If you can keep them in a bonding pouch on you for 1-2 hours a day(or even a few days a week)while they are sleeping is great for bonding too.