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May 9, 2013

 problems with bonding

My younger sister got a sugar glider for her birthday and literally never held him(Seymour) and after a week of staying in his cage and never being touched, she was hospitalized for almost three full weeks. I fed him and gave him yogurt treats, but I didn't want him to bond to me, because he wasn't mine. When she got back home she asked if I wanted him. I obviously said yes, because I was the one who wanted one in the first place. Its been about three months since hes been officially mine and ive bonded with him every day for hours and hours and I still don't feel like hes bonded to me. I got him a larger cage about three days ago and put tons of toys in it and got him a wodent wheel(which he LOVES) but I feel that he isn't fully bonded to me. I put a shirt that I wear a lot in his cage for him to nest in and he loves it, but he wont let me pet him for very long before he trys to bite me. I feel like we are merely acquaintances and not life long companions like we should be. Am I doing something wrong, or is it jut going to take a while for him to fully trust me since he went almost a month without bonding to anyone? Im so worried. Please help):

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May 19 2013 : 02:43:08 PM
ashleymg93
He usually doesn't break skin when he bites but on occasion he does. I read that this means he is pouch protective and that I need to get him a hammock instead of his sleeping "box." He runs away from me a lot though. I block all entry ways and make sure he can't get behind or under furniture and I let him roam around my room and we play games where he jumps from my back to the curtains but he won't come to me unless I actually grab him(which used to result in a bite, but rarely does now) I was not prepared to be a suggie mom yet and was kind of forced into it a bit sooner. I didn't have time to do the necessary research and I'm learning more and more every day. But I just worry that I'll learn something new a little too late and I somehow ruin my little fuzz butt for life): I can use all the advice I can get!

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May 12 2013 : 07:23:31 PM
stinky
We need help as well. we recently got a sugar glider and have bonded with him. Animal control by us had a female, so we thought we would get her as a friend for him. The vet "fixed" him and we brought home the girl. She is a mean little thing. She has bit me 5 times - 3 times, she has broken the skin and caused me to bleed. I am ready to take her back. Can anyone help with what is wrong with this little girl?

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May 10 2013 : 01:24:09 AM
Brittulip
First off I am glade that your sister does not own him anymore. Secondly it sounds like your doing things right, it takes every glider a different length of time to bond. So keep at it. However when you say you bond with him everyday, what does that mean? Are you carrying him around in a bonding pouch? Because if no you need to be doing that and not just feeding and playing with him even though it sounds like that is a lot more then he had been receiving. And explain bite for me, (as silly as it sounds) I"m just curious if you meaning that he i not breaking the skin and doing more of a scraping of teeth/tasting/grooming you.

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