Ya know here lately I see a lot of criticism on how other people do things. Not on this group so much, just in general.
Frankly, there is more than one way to do something correctly. Just because I don't use the term "sugar bear" doesn't mean every bit of information in that book is incorrect.
If
YOU find useful information in that book, no matter what word they use to label the animal then USE that information. If it sounds like something is a bit off and you don't want to apply it then don't apply it to how you do things. It's really that simple.
I read information all the time, some I agree with some I don't, and some I have changed my mind about. I take whatever part I learned that I can use and I leave the rest. That's what I get out of researching I learn, then ask questions if I need to then I make educated decisions about how
I want to do things. How I want to do things maybe different than how you want to do things n that's ok!
I watched all the PP videos and found that a lot of the info was not what I expected or I felt it was a bit weird.... and some of it I could use....
Weeding out bad info is part of RESEARCHING, not just on PP stuff or books that use terminology you don't like. So take your knowledge where you can get it, and only apply what works for YOU. If you don't trust
ONE source, look for another source and another and another and compare what
ALL those sources are telling you and if your still not sure
ASK someone.