well as it turns out Sweet Pea a nice sweet female that doesnt know how to bite even during nail trimming was rejected. her other 2 cage mates were excepted so we have 9 in one cage. but up to 3 gliders took turns chasing around sweet pea at night. sleep time they were ok. but ever time they chased or attacked she would just roll over and take it, don't know if that is why the keep up the chasing.
So temporarily she is all alone, she will get a vet visit and maybe we will do more scent training with cage and pouches and give her another chance later. but we also just got a long lost male that has lived 2 years in pocket pets SMALL cage with a mate that died a year ago. so this maybe sweet pea's new boyfriend in the future.