You will need to get all the boys neutered, regardless of getting a new one or not. They probably don't fight now because they are not old enough to be sexually mature. Once they reach that point, you're probably going to have some ornery little guys on your hands! Plus, they will probably start marking a lot and stinking up the cage. It's always best to neuter.
And adding another glider, whether male or female, can always be hit or miss. With the other glider being older however, you will want to wait to introduce them until your two young ones have grown. It's ideal to introduce gliders of the same size.