So sorry to hear about Rocky. We too have had similar experiences and it is just gut-wrenching.
Our USDA / Rescue vet is Christine Kolmstetter of Cheyenne West Animal Hospital in Las Vegas. She has extensive experience with sugar gliders. She performed an eye enucleation on one of our rescues Makudo about a year ago and he pulled through just fine.
She also did an UNDERWATER eye surgery on a fish years ago when we were searching for a top notch exotic vet.
She has done dozens upon dozens of neuters for us and many life-saving surgical proceedures.
A few things to consider based on our experience with this:
It is important to clean out the socket entirely for fear of infection that can easily reach the brain
he will be on antibiotics for weeks
He will probably have his eyelids sewn shut to keep out debris. That will form permanent tissue after a while
He will probably need a special eye wash to be administered daily or twice daily. Even though there is no eye there, they still get a special wash
You can maybe get your vet to contact Dr. Kolmstetter for peer advice:
702-395-1800
The female with the fur missing....
There are several possible reasons for that. one is just stress related. Gliders has a tendency towards SM (self mutilation) when they are stressed. but probably the most likely is nutrition related. When they are starved for proper food, they will often over-groom and hurt themselves. Check out the LGRS Suggie Soup diet for them:
http://www.sugarglider.com/glidergossip/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=25960
Just this past week, we had two gliders with eye / cheek abscess problems. Commonly thought to be a result of tooth decay, facial abscesses can happen for many reasons. For example, they can happen if a glider mistakenly scratches his eyelid or skin just below the eye and it gets infected (what we think happened with rescue DOC last week who is now on twice-daily oral anitbiotics and an eyedrop triple antibiotic --- or as with BUNNY last week who had a small bite on her nose which developed an infection that quickly turned into a cheek abscess.
In the case of Bunny, the abscess needs to be expressed BEFORE it pops on its own. This is done by the vet lancing the abscess and clearing out the pus. Although swelling often occurs after this little surgery, it is much preferable to just allowing it to ooze and fester. If it is allowed to pop on its own, the rupture spreads the infection and can also force it into other areas. I guess what I am saying is if you see even a HINT of swelling, get a vet to assess whether or not the area needs to be lanced and cleaned out or whether -- if it is really small -- antibiotics and time will take care of it.
Good luck with all of them especially Rocky